HOW TO STAY IN LOVE
Nowadays, most people know how to fall in love but not how to stay in love. It is easy to fall in love but it requires more work , more effort of the both parties to stay in love .#Sighs! who are either in marriage for material things, fame, looks without understanding what it means to be in that school called marriage.
Love is a beautiful thing that can ever happen to any human because God himself is love and it is more beautiful when you continuing falling in love with the same person over and over thus staying in love!
Below are highlight of things to do to continue staying in love..........
The first and foremost is to acknowledge God in your relationship
Secondly, Make your lover your best friend. The friend you can confide in, be transparent to each other, that doesn't need to be on his or her toe whenever you're around them, he or she knows your flaws, the good and bad about you.
Make your love life the fairy tale which you've always dreamed of let your romance life be on fire, people should be aware of your relationship, flaunt your lover, by doing that , you have some sort of security over your lover
Apart from the fairy tale, romeo and Juliet kind of love, Love is a commitment my dear!Thats is you're committed to seeing to each others well being, you're concerned about all of her and she's concerned about all of you.
I said earlier to staybin love requires a lot of work, one of it is discipline, I'm sure you know there's no most beautiful and most handsome, I mean literary, you'd always find someone who's better than your spouse. And this is where discipline sets in decision to always love him or her alone,shutting your mind and eyes to anyone else
Finding faults in your partner and always nagging about it is a very bad behaviour, no one is perfect, even if you eventually must find fault do it in a way to correct and help your partner become better and not killing him or her with your words.
Always acknowledge every bit of going extra mile by your partner with sweet words, thereby encouraging him or her to do more.
Don't place your work, relatives, friends etc over your partner make them important, they should come first in everything you do.
Finally, do what you did, while you were courting when you eventually get married, discuss things out, don't keep malice with your spouse don't forget you've become one and interestingly, love is not violent, love is not angry, love is not selfish, it is not obstinate, it is humble, it is not proud , love is God and God is love#Have God in your love life and see how things would work out smoothly for you!
Below are highlight of things to do to continue staying in love..........
The first and foremost is to acknowledge God in your relationship
Secondly, Make your lover your best friend. The friend you can confide in, be transparent to each other, that doesn't need to be on his or her toe whenever you're around them, he or she knows your flaws, the good and bad about you.
Make your love life the fairy tale which you've always dreamed of let your romance life be on fire, people should be aware of your relationship, flaunt your lover, by doing that , you have some sort of security over your lover
Apart from the fairy tale, romeo and Juliet kind of love, Love is a commitment my dear!Thats is you're committed to seeing to each others well being, you're concerned about all of her and she's concerned about all of you.
I said earlier to staybin love requires a lot of work, one of it is discipline, I'm sure you know there's no most beautiful and most handsome, I mean literary, you'd always find someone who's better than your spouse. And this is where discipline sets in decision to always love him or her alone,shutting your mind and eyes to anyone else
Finding faults in your partner and always nagging about it is a very bad behaviour, no one is perfect, even if you eventually must find fault do it in a way to correct and help your partner become better and not killing him or her with your words.
Always acknowledge every bit of going extra mile by your partner with sweet words, thereby encouraging him or her to do more.
Don't place your work, relatives, friends etc over your partner make them important, they should come first in everything you do.
Finally, do what you did, while you were courting when you eventually get married, discuss things out, don't keep malice with your spouse don't forget you've become one and interestingly, love is not violent, love is not angry, love is not selfish, it is not obstinate, it is humble, it is not proud , love is God and God is love#Have God in your love life and see how things would work out smoothly for you!
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